Rules

  1. No means NO in any language.
  2. Always ask before touching anybody. Always.
  3. Be self-disciplined and respectful of others.
  4. No one under the age of 21 allowed to attend club functions.
  5. Do not discuss Guilty Pleasures or members in public. Use discretion.
  6. Do not give out Guilty Pleasures location to non-members.
  7. No use of illegal drugs on the premises.
  8. No illegal activity of any kind allowed at club functions.
  9. No weapons inside the club.
  10. Membership cards must be presented for entrance to any club function.
  11. Remember that Guilty Pleasures is private, once you leave the club you are in a public atmosphere, act and dress accordingly.
  12. No cell phones, cameras, or any other recording devices are allowed to be used inside "Guilty Pleasures" at anytime. NO EXCEPTIONS!
  13. Use the party time for meeting, socializing and getting to know other couples.

No Means No!

We do not assume responsibility for the actions or behavior of our attendees. We do expect acceptable manners of behavior, common courtesy to others, and discretion. All couples and singles shall exercise the same respect, dignity and discretion they want others to show in return. Any problems that might arise concerning these issues will be handled by Guilty Pleasures, ONLY IF:

  1. It is requested by a member.
  2. Certain behaviors are causing a disturbance.

We believe you should to be able to handle your relationships with other members. Be prepared and able to say "No" in a polite, yet firm manner. DO NOT expect us to do that for you! If a member will not take NO for an answer, then our staff will take care of the problem. NO means NO! Crude, lewd and socially unacceptable behavior WILL NOT be tolerated!

If you are coming to Guilty Pleasures with a partner, establish your boundaries beforehand.

Singles are always welcome at any party, "Guilty Pleasures" is a safe and comfortable place to kick up your feet and meet some nice couples or singles.

The more you introduce yourself, the better are your opportunities. When meeting a couple, we suggest you talk to both of them to prevent misunderstandings.

Misunderstandings are less likely to occur when you are upfront with everyone.

Be polite and understanding with everyone.

And most of all, ENJOY YOURSELVES!

FAQs

What kind of people attend the parties?

Our typical members are married couples. Most are in their 30's and 40's, but we have members from 21 to 60 plus. We have single females that attend on a regular basis. As our parties have grown, we have become more diverse. We discourage "cliques" and urge all our members to meet the new members that join each week. We think you will find the friendliest people in Oklahoma here at "Guilty Pleasures".

When are the parties?

You may click here to see our future parties. Parties start at 9 pm and last until 2 am. If you are a new member, you ARE REQUIRED to attend the Welcome Warm up held before the first party you attend. Once you have become a member you do not have to RSVP for future parties.

Am I required to dress for the theme?

Absolutely not! Our stand dress code of "dress like you are going on a date" applies to all parties. Dressing for the theme is optional and just for a little extra fun!

Do you provide condoms?

Typically we do not provide condoms and do not come in expecting us to have any. Please bring your own condoms. You know your preference and size better than we do!

Will I be pressured to do anything?

No! Pressure is not tolerated.

Are single men allowed to attend?

Yes, we accect singles regardless of gender.

I'm a single. How do I attend a party?

Complete the RSVP form and receive permission from us for the party you would like to attend. Once you attend your first party, you will become a member which will allow you to show up at the door for entrance.

What are the costs?

We are a private membership club. Before attending a party, you must complete our RSVP form. At the evening of your first party, you must purchase a membership.

Cost per Party is:

  • $60 per couple
  • $20 per single female
  • $70 per single male

What about the Amenities?

Guilty Pleasures provide hors d'oeuvres and light snacks throughout the evening for your convenience. Alcohol beverages are not provided and you must bring your own. Please remember, Drink Responsibly!